Epiphany #…

2009 October 29
by Boss Lady

Everything I have: my skills, my abilities, my intelligence, my strength, my beauty, my love, my knowledge, my relationships, and my material possessions are from Allah. If a person despises me, is jealous of me or works to undermine any of that then they should know they are fighting Allah (s.w.t.) and not me. I can only be successful by Allah’s leave. I can only fail because of some inadequacy on my part or because it is part of Allah’s divine decree.

When facing adversity (especially in regards to other human beings) or even striving for something better, I remind myself:

“…If the whole nation were to gather together to benefit you they would only benefit you with that which Allaah had already written for you and if the whole nation were to gather to harm you they could only harm you with that which Allaah had already written to harm you. The pen has been lifted and the ink has dried (a phrase meaning: everything has been decreed or settled)”. [At-Tirmithi]

In the language of the hood: you can’t knock the hustle…

5 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 October 29

    Asalaamu alaikum

    I was thinking of you and missing your posts. Glad to see you back. Everything is masha Allah.

  2. 2009 October 29

    Ameen, ameen!
    May Allah (swt) continue to guide you, and make things easy for you.
    How old r u again?…lol. you are too wise, mashallah!

  3. 2009 October 30
    Umm Taaba permalink

    Salaam,

    Very nice to have you back!

    Great post too! Short and to the point!

    Looking forward to reading more in the future, Inshallah.

    Take Care.

  4. 2009 November 20

    Ameen!! Ameen!! Say it AGAIN..Ameen.
    I am currently dealing with being a victim of backbighting. Its my first ‘front face’ dealing with it. It upset me very much.

    This statement frees me from any remose I felt from ‘feeling wronged or being wrong’…

    may Allah(swt) reward you for making a sister feel better. May you also benefit from the words.

    Ma salaama

    • 2009 November 21
      Boss Lady permalink

      Umm Amirah,

      I am also dealing with my fair share of backbiting and even slander. I had to reread my own words, lol.

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